just did another translation of a very touching article of ‘andersmensch’
https://andersmensch.wordpress.com/2015/03/16/partnerschaft-und-bewusstwerdung/
The true meaning of partnership is not having somebody who completes you or fufill certain needs, because you are complete already and you have to fulfills certain needs.
Its even better if you don’t have needs, just tendencies and preferences – with those life gets easier and lighter.
Your partner is definetly not your personal needfulfiller, but a mate, who you are meeting on one a same level to explore together the everlasting mystery of love. He is as blind as you within the love- never forget! He does not know the way like every other person in this world. There are no professionals in love, just eternal beginners. Don’t put demands and reproaches on your partner, if he stumbles within its love towards you- just catch him. Carry him where he can not walk alone and let him carry you, where you don’t have power to walk. Don’t belive that your partner came to your life to make you happy or to ease up the burden of your existence.
His appearance in your life has a different reason.
His soul is here to remind your soul about who you truly are – breathing, alive, moving love, who travels through itself, to recognize itself as living, breathing, moving love on a material level. The whole sense of your meeting is to bring each other to remember your beautiful true self – pure awareness, divinity on material level. Thats the highest purpose of you beeing together. The true meaning of partnership is not being or getting happy, its getting into awareness. Happiness is just a side effect, which always comes along with the same amount of misfortune, because one is causing the other.
If you are able to love in a way, where you can realize that your love is always present apart from luck or misfortune. Then you are on a great path not to be blind within love anymore, you can become a seeing person.
You will see and be unlimited stunned, because your journey through everlasting mystery of love never ends – it s flowing higher from level to next level.
As soon as you realize, that you didnt come together to be happy, infact to realize and get aware, most of your conflicts will dissolve, because the truth is – they were just buffed up egos, stupid, meaningless bubbles in the unlimited ocean of love. Be brave and ready to drown there again and again – everytime you will emerge again and experience a fully new level of being. Side to side, soul in soul, connected as one unit in clear awareness of love.
Thats the true sense of every partnership.